Coaching Vs Mentoring

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Whether you’re a HR Director or leading the L&D function, you’ll know just how key your role is when fostering environments where your teams can thrive. Two of the most powerful tools in your leadership toolkit are mentoring and coaching. However, while these terms are often used interchangeably, they are distinct practices that serve different purposes. In this blog, we’ll explore the key differences between mentoring and coaching and share actionable strategies to develop people managers’ skills in both areas.

Mentoring vs Coaching: The Key Differences

To understand the distinction between mentoring and coaching, let’s first define them. Mentoring is typically a relationship where a more experienced individual shares their knowledge and expertise to guide another person’s long-term development. Coaching, on the other hand, is a structured process focused on helping individuals unlock their potential through questions and self-discovery.

The infographic below provides a snapshot of the key differences:

Mentor

• Offers guidance and shares their experience
• Typically an expert who provides examples
• Often focused on long-term career progression
• Emphasises, “This is what worked for me in the past."

Coach

• Asks questions and listens
• Encourages the individual to think for themselves
• Often focused on performance growth
• Probes with questions like, “How else could you approach the situation?”

While mentoring leans on the mentor’s knowledge, coaching empowers individuals to generate their own solutions—a critical distinction managers must understand.

Why Managers Need Both Skills

The ability to adapt and grow is essential. People managers who excel in both mentoring and coaching can:

• Support their team’s professional development and career growth (mentoring)
• Help their teams tackle immediate challenges and improve performance (coaching)

This dual capability allows managers to build high-performing, motivated teams while ensuring long-term talent retention.

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Developing Managers in Mentoring and Coaching

1. Build Awareness of the Differences

Start by helping your managers understand the distinctions between mentoring and coaching. Use simple frameworks and visual aids, such as the infographic above, to clarify the unique value of each approach. Encourage managers to reflect on when each skill is most appropriate. For example:

• Use mentoring when discussing career trajectories or industry insights
• Use coaching when addressing a performance issue or unlocking creative problem-solving

2. Train Managers in Core Skills

Both mentoring and coaching require specific skills. Consider offering targeted training sessions that cover the following:

Mentoring Skills:

• Active Listening: Encourage managers to truly understand their mentee’s goals and challenges without interrupting
• Sharing Experiences: Teach managers how to draw on their professional journey to provide relevant guidance
• Setting Expectations: Help managers establish clear objectives and boundaries for mentoring relationships. For example, agreeing on the frequency of meetings and desired outcomes

Coaching Skills:

• Active Listening: as above!
• Asking Powerful Questions: Train managers to use open-ended questions that provoke critical thinking, such as “What options have you considered?” or “What might success look like?”
• Building Accountability: Teach managers to empower their teams to take ownership of their goals and solutions
• Providing Constructive Feedback: Develop their ability to give actionable, specific, and positive feedback

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3. Practice Sessions

Theory is helpful, but nothing is quite as powerful as giving things a go! You could try things such as:

• Working in pairs, mentoring each other to better understand each other’s roles
• Working as a triad, coach each other through a current work challenge. Person A is the coach, Person B the coachee and Person C an observer to offer feedback. Rotate so everyone gets a go.

4. Leverage Tools and Frameworks

Provide managers with structured tools and frameworks to guide their conversations. For coaching, you could introduce models like GROW (Goal, Reality, Options, Will) or check out the COIN model for feedback. For mentoring, encourage the use of clear goal-setting frameworks and regular review check-ins.

5. Foster a Mentoring and Coaching Culture

To embed these practices, create a culture that values and rewards mentoring and coaching. Initiatives could include:

• Mentorship Programs: Match less experienced employees with seasoned managers for informal mentoring relationships
• Coaching Communities: Facilitate peer-to-peer coaching circles where managers can practice and refine their coaching skills
• Recognition: Celebrate managers who demonstrate their mentoring and coaching commitment, reinforcing the importance of these skills

Equipping managers with both mentoring and coaching skills is an investment in your organisation’s future. By understanding the unique value of each approach and embedding these practices into your culture, you’ll empower managers to unlock their teams’ full potential. The result? A team that is not only high-performing but also deeply engaged and committed to their growth journey.

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